So I met my future husband exactly a week ago today and we’ve hung out almost every day since then–whether we’re just chilling, watching netflix, cuddling, sleeping, eating lunch at the union, or playing with his dog. It’s been great having someone to do things with…like having a best friend that you can flirt with. I like him more and more each time I see him, and I’m genuinely very happy with my life right now and the way things are going. (I am hoping {expecting-*fingers crossed*} to get an acceptance letter to medical school soon!)
So I’ve been missing a lot of my moms calls lately since I’ve been hanging out with this guy, and my parents have been kind of suspicious because I like never miss one of their calls. So yesterday my mom called and was complaining about how “I don’t love her anymore” because I haven’t called her in a while. Then she said “You’re dad wants to know if you have a boyfriend?” — (I have no idea how he does this but, somehow, my dad can always tell when’s something up and he always finds out everything…I mean, I literally live hours away from my parents and he’s still able to tell when I act different). Anyways, I reply to her question nonchalantly by saying “No, I don’t have a boyfriend ha” and then she’s like “Do you have a friend-boy?” And I’m like “No, mom.” So I tried acting as normal as possible, but like I said, my parents always know when something’s up so i don’t know if I convinced them or not. But I just tried to talk about how I’ve just been super stressed lately with school stuff and that’s why I’ve been frustrated when I’ve talked to her lately.
So today I met my guy for lunch at the union and I thought it was a funny story so I told him. And then I was trying to like read what he was thinking (I wasn’t very successful), but it seemed like he either (1) didn’t think it was a funny story/didn’t care, (2) was glad I didn’t tell my mom about him, or (3) his feelings were hurt that I didn’t want to tell my mom about him or that I hadn’t told her about him.
Well later tonight after he got off work we were talking and he randomly said “And I’ve told my mom and sis about you lol…since you brought up your mom. I told em before today tho lol.” So I guess it was #3. I mean he just randomly brought it up in conversation and felt the need to tell me he had told his mom and sister about me so I guess it bothered him that I hadn’t told my parents about him or something. So this made me feel really bad because I want him to know that I really like him and want to be in a serious relationship with him. So I said “Oh really? Haha that’s sweet 🙂 I was going to tell my mom about you when she came up this weekend ha” and he said “Awh”… So now I feel like I should tell my mom about him but, then again, we haven’t been talking for long and we’re not official yet. Plus my parents act weird when I’m seeing someone–I don’t want them making comments like “are you with someone? are you at so-and-so’s house?” and stalking him on facebook haha. So I think I’m going to wait to tell them. I just need to find the right time.